Recognize that voice? It’s the voice of your Inner Bully.
He’s pushy. He’s judgmental. He plays dirty. He can take you down and lock you up. He saps your energy and motivation! He’s sneaky in how he finds your weak spot and exposes it again and again. Your Inner Bully is constantly comparing you to something else, some ideal that you can never measure up to. He taunts you with cruel words about how you’re not strong enough, smart enough or good enough… like you’re back in the 8th grade and not with the popular kids. He tells you that you can’t have what you want. He loves to keep you toiling away in the daily grind. His favorite thing to do is to make you feel small, inadequate, and hopeless. He’s always finding evidence to prove his theory: you are NOT enough… and you better just settle for what you have.
We’re here to tell you this: your Inner Bully is a LIAR!
He tells you big hairy lies to try to maintain the status quo and keep you in your comfort zones. Even if your comfort zones aren’t all that comfortable. He will tell you over and over again that “you can’t change,” “you suck” and “you can’t do it” What if you could take down that
critical voice in your head and get him out of your game? We know that you put more pressure on yourself than anyone else ever could. Really men, we’re taking on all those universal voices from our Inner Bullies that tell us there is only one way to be as a man – tough it out, suck it up, put your nose to the grindstone, don’t show your weaknesses and never ask for help. We are letting ourselves be victims to our Inner Bully. The truth is your Inner Bully is tripping you up, slowing you down and keeping you from the success and happiness you want and deserve. Man to man, we want you to know that we’ve transformed our Inner Bullies into our Inner Heroes – someone who is on our side vs. on our back -- and we want to show you how to do the same. What Men are Saying about the Inner Bully Movement:“The program created a challenge and an opening for me to take a close look at where I’m emotionally stuck coupled with a safety I felt with other men also sharing their stuck places. This ultimately provided an opening for me to discover what I truly want and create a new vision of how I want my life to unfold from here.”– Skot M, Engineer “I was able to pull back a layer just to learn that there was again yet another layer. I am grateful for the time and the atmosphere to appropriately understand and face those things in my life hardest to face and move through.” |
Chris Kyle is passionate about helping men navigate the challenges they face in today’s world in all their various roles – as father, husband, partner, business man, entrepreneur and friend – by assisting them on their path to being inspired, aware men. Chris is the co-founder of The Ascendant Company, a personal and professional development organization focused on helping men be better men in their lives and reaching their full potential. Chris is also the co-creator of the New Man, New Woman, New Life Series where he speaks with luminaries such as Neale Donald Walsch, Gay Hendricks, Barbara Marx Hubbard and Craig Hamilton.
Noah is committed to creating experiences for men that teach them how to get out of their own way, get past the daily grind, and stop giving up on the dreams they have for their lives. After 8+ years in a play-it-safe corporate career, Noah took a 30-day solo motorcycle trip from Chicago to San Francisco, and never looked back.
